Me and T share many things in common. At the same time though, we are totally differnt people and totally different personalities. Any 2 people can find things they have in common if you dig a little bit. I do think that the T saying that we have things in common is for a reason-to provoke transference, to build rapport, to help connect, the list goes on... Mine revealed to me many things including: same church denomination, our sisters have same name, like to drive SUV's, both used to work at summer camps, like to mentor, like to volunteer, etc