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Originally Posted by PiperLeigh
Many of this thread's stereotypes of adopting parents makes me sad. I have two beautiful children that joined my family through adoption. They were not us "settling" on having something other than biological children. We weren't looking to have "perfect" babies. We have lots of love and are so blessed by our children being our lives. I don't doubt there are some lousy adoptive parents, just like there are lousy biological parents. I just find it a bit hurtful to see adoptive parents intentions and motivations so maligned with such a broad stroke in many comments here.  |
I am really sorry if the thread makes you feel sad or if it is hurtful to you. I am so glad you spoke up.
I have a few questions (if you don't mind answering): Why did you decide to adopt? Did you specifically intend to adopt an infant or a younger child? Did you go through a reputable service or lawyer that "screens" the background of the bio family? Did you go out of the country for a child instead of looking in your own backyard? Did you go with an open or closed adoption? Do you have paperwork for your adoptive children regarding their birth parents that explains why their bio parents' gave them up for adoption along with a "vague" background? Do your children know they are adopted?
I am sorry if my questions are too personal. I am very curious and have an open mind if you would like to share.
And again, I am sorry the thread hurt you. or others.