Only once has my T just insisted on eye contact. He wanted to be sure I looked at him so I would see and know that he was not disgusted by what I was telling him. He wanted me to look into eyes and know and remember that he was not judging and that he cared about me. He even tapped my foot with his at one point to get my attention to remind me that I had said that I wanted to see his reaction as much as I feared it.