My T has never asked me to look at him, but he has mentioned my lack of eye contact several times. Once he said he thought it was related to my CSA. Dunno about that, it seems more to be about shame in general.
The weird thing for me is that I don't really have trouble making eye contact with anyone else...except my MOM

Yup, just T and mom. Now that I'm no-contact with my family and have a little more psychological distance from them, that may be something I'm ready to talk about in T.