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Originally Posted by PiperLeigh
You know, I think I was just triggered and got upset with this thread and I shouldn't have. I had a crummy bio mom and PTSD from the abuse. Some people have crummy adoptive parents and develop PTSD. I really shouldn't have jumped in. I'm sorry, Rose. I'm sorry you went through what you did. I wish every kid, bio or adopted had good, loving homes and didn't have to struggle with these things. I'm sorry, again. I wish you well.
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((((Piper)))) I am sorry you went through what you did, as well. You are sooo fortunate to have children! I would have loved to have kids but Fiance #1 drowned and #2 passed away from cancer. Both had kids from previous marriages. #1 ex and I got along great. #2 ex was a nightmare but I LOVED all of those kids. At every age.
When my guys died, the kids went away, as well 
(so it was a double loss for me - twice).
I am sure you and your husband are wonderful, loving people. I appreciate that you shared.
((((OE)))) was right on when she wrote : "I don't know the people you are talking about here, but hopefully they are not just doing the adoption this way because it is THE THING TO DO THAT IS "DESIGNER" and a must have."
Yes, my cousin and her husband (and my family in general) are the type that they wouldn't accept anything less than an infant. And I am QUITE POSITIVE they did a thorough background check on the bio family (medical and psychological) and wouldn't have adopted a child of any color other than paste-y white.
