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Old May 25, 2012, 07:15 PM
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Originally Posted by TinaL View Post
I agree Autumn. I don't know the whole story and prolly the only people who do are him and his wife. My son said, she wanted a divorce. He lost it. I always wonder how many people actually care when a person is alive that their having problems. And then this happens, and ppl say why? I'm not blaming anyone.

I know how it feels not to have anyone to turn to.. and I am one of those 'no bodies.'
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No one and I mean no one knew my cousin was having problems. He hid it very well. He was a well-liked and well-known local surfer. Everyone from his mother to his sister to his best friend to his girlfriend said they had no idea he was going through anything. A neighbor found him in his yard and he had managed to blow his own head off with a shotgun. He was 40.

My cousin was "somebody" so he got the huge funeral, obit, etc. He was a surfer, so they did a "memorial surf" for him.

In contrast, I am also nobody except for a select few. I would be mourned, but not by many.
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