I agree with UnhappyGuy. You have never met this person and until you do you don't even know if there IS a person. This is red flag, undertow, gale wind warning stuff. And I have to say this ( because it was left soooooo wide open.....) PULL OUT!! Please be careful and take care of yourself. It is so difficult and painful to be alone. But to invest so much in this "relationship" may derail you