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Originally Posted by Towanda
Kaalkabir, have you ever heard of something called attention deficit disorder in your country? In our country, USA, this is a learning disability where people have trouble paying attention, get distracted easily, have trouble staying on task, focusing when reading, sitting still to study or read/write. There is medication that helps people focus.
If not, my advice would be to try to study in short bursts of time - 20 minutes to a half hour at a time, then take a break. Force yourself to study, then take a five minute break. See if that works - that's what I have to do - I have a very short attention span - and it works for me (I'm a full time psychology student)
Good luck - please post again and let us know how you're doing 
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Thank you linda thank you very much for your reply..i am about to follow your tips and see weather it works..
but now i wud like to say something about me that how i was and how i changed to be like what i am now-
once i was a talent and hard labouring type of student..i always stood in the category of top 10..
soon after i completed my intermediate level,i applied for finland in order to complete start my higher education.though i was good and my scores were very good..i could not find the reason for my rejection..and that leaded me to frustration but with the help of my mates i got rid of it and again next i applied for singapore,,i paid the fee i gave the entrance test i send the registration fee along with my documents..after a month i recevied scholarship letter from melior business scholl,singapore..i was happy and soon i got student pass i was about to go but my parents dint allowed me saying that they will not pay for me..later i was too frustrated that i decided not to study any more and i joined for training in mobile hardware and software courses..after the completion i opened my own institute of mobile hardware and software courses and started to train the candidates..meanwhile i fall in love with a beautiful girl named s----well it was going all well but after two year she left me and got married with someone else..i was about to commit suicide but again something changed myself..i thought to be one of the best personnel and make myself known to world,,i thought to be successful and make her feel that she did a blunder mistake by leaving me..i developed my aim to make some research in the field of microbiology(esp. in virus and viral dzs)..
for this i left my country nepal and came to india and joined here for the study of medical sciences.at starting i was very good i thought to be the top student here and i studied very well,,but here in first year i got only 70% marks but i was in the list of top ten stdnts,.now in second year i want to be in top but whenever i start to study i start thinking all about my past and i cant focus on my study in class i do not pay attention to lesson taught i think all the time,,again i hate teachers when they provide written notes to student thinking that why dont they allow student to struggle themselves and let them find their way..for this i hate my teachers i cant explain how much//when i return to my room i be alone and start thinking about what is happening and what had happened? i know i cant change this all but it is creating me an obstruction for my work,my exam is from 29th of may and i hav not prepared for it yet,,,i cud not sleep for a night i keep on thinking and thinking and get depressed,,i know my problem but i cud'nt handle and solve it..i fear a lot about my future i dont know how to make my aim into reality..i helped and gave a lot of ideas to my friends to face the problem because of me my friends who were in frustration got recovered but i am unable to change my mentality..how can i overcome my own problem?