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May 26, 2012, 07:07 AM
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Member Since: Oct 2010
Location: Michigan
Posts: 6,543
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If I'm reading this right, it sounds like your wife is afraid to move back into "married life" for fear of things going right back to the way they were, before counseling, etc. I really don't see that happening, because I think you've both learned alot since then, but I understand her fears.
I can understand your fears too, as she isn't blameless either. You've BOTH got work to do. Things aren't completely settled by any means.
I would hope you could SLOWLY move back to being a 'couple' again and being very MINDFUL of each others wants and needs. Perhaps even "dating" again -- that can be fun!! 
Why not ask your marriage counselor HOW you should proceed? He/She can give you the best advice. 
I know this is hard on you, but you want to take it slow. God bless & keep us posted. Hugs, Lee
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