We sit in chairs that are about 4 or 5 feet from each other. It's a little far for me. Plus, his chair is higher than mine and he's taller, so I'm always looking up at him. I don't like that much.

My previous T had chairs set up in a corner and the front edges of the chair were about 3 feet apart - when we sat down, we had to organize how our legs were crossed so we weren't kicking each other. I actually liked that distance a lot - it made the session more intimate. That T did say once, though, that he liked the chairs a little farther apart, but his office setup didn't allow it.