Hey Calista I'm sorry I'm usually on my iphone on this site and I thought I had said thank you or hugs to everyone who responded but sometimes it's hard to click or to click the right thing on the little screen! I'm sorry it was triggering for you I'm not good at responded to individual posts either b/c of the phone thingy...but I did want to say that you are right in saying that a part of me didn't get what I wanted from T's response-at least at first-then in the emails I did. Thank you for your response-I hope you will continue to talk to me in the future-and I will double check next time on my hugs and thanks...