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Old May 26, 2012, 07:17 PM
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Originally Posted by Abby View Post
if anything I would say one of my main problems is that my boundaries are too strong! I don't get close to people really and I am envious of those that so naturally and easily connect with others. I'm obviously scared of other people for some reason
But you are saying that you are about to venture out to connect with people more? Maybe then you are afraid of what will happen when others get too close?

Good boundaries are when you are confident enough to carry yourself around others and can let them get close but not too close.
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Thanks for this!
Abby