thank you for the interesting thread - i have lost many r'ships and friendships due to my moodswings - i had no idea about myself at the time tho and blamed therest of the world for how i felt

i am very lucky that i have met a fantastic man who loves me for all the sides to me that there are, he is patient and doesnt take things to heart. he is as immovable as a rock when i try and push him away too. we think it helps that he is a bit narcissistic ;-) we also think it helps that his prev r'ship was with someone who had much worse MH problems but no idea she has them (is still blaming the rest of the world for how she feels, like i used to) - he says its a relief to be with me - i spose the novelty could wear off though!