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Old May 27, 2012, 06:06 AM
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Originally Posted by mixedup_emotions View Post
I am ANGRY that he does not have to carry any of the burden of it. .
(((((((MUE!))))))))

I SO understand this anger. During my recent hard months with T, there were quite a few things that just landed in my lap and *I* was the one who had to decide to accept/not accept, and who had to do the work of "letting it go". It felt super unfair, and it WAS unfair, actually.

It's hard when the relationship is SO big to us and feels like "just another relationship" to them.

I wish I had just the right words to make you feel better.

You ARE important, and you DO matter. Your feelings are real, and okay.

Sending lots of
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Thanks for this!
mixedup_emotions