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Old May 27, 2012, 08:57 AM
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Originally Posted by autumnleaves View Post
Hi everyone,

I have a question for you all. What the experience like for you all when you told about your abuse for the first time or at different times? I know for me, it was SO, SO, SO hard the first time. It was like pulling teeth. It was also very, very painful. I told for the first time when I was 20. Now, I still have some trouble discussing it, but it's not as hard as it used to be. I recognize now that telling is a huge release for me, even telling now that I've told before. So, I guess it would be interesting to see:

1)How old were you when you first told?
2)Who did you tell?
3)What were your feelings/experiences?

1. 33, about 5 weeks ago
2. just my psychologist and that's how it's going stay
3. Awful, don't remember much of telling her as I dissociate, but from what she has said it was just the fact that it happened, who it was, but no details
Hugs from:
autumnleaves, jkristana, Open Eyes, Sannah, shezbut
Thanks for this!
autumnleaves, Bill3, Gr3tta