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Originally Posted by happy101
All bcoz she confides in them about her crap bf, and honestly the guys a loser. Shadey illegal dealings, verbal, financial and emotional abuse, plus he's a womaniser. Why have we all turned our backs on her? Coz despite her incessant crying and ranting, rapid weight loss from lack of appetite, lack of sleep (that WE saw her thru, N0T him) she still idolizes him, and worships the ground he walks on, won't leave him and bites off anybody's head that dare point out his flaws. Says she just can't be alone. We, found that a VERRY bitter and sad pill to swallow, that she would sacrifice herself like that for a jerk.
Im going through this with my sister.Eversince I told her to leave him and did not attend a dinner with her bf she has ditched me. Do they ever get out of this? I dont want her feeling lonely but what is it with women like these?
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I don't see my friend leaving her bf, I can't understand her mindset at all. I've tried having a friendship with her minus him, but she always oversteps the bf boundary and complains about him. I just can't and won't do it anymore, it's too draining and confusing for me. We've regressed to being friendly aquaintances. I hope you can salvage your relationship with your sister. Take care