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May 27, 2012, 11:11 AM
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Member Since: Oct 2010
Location: Michigan
Posts: 6,543
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Sweetie, you've been STRUGGLING with this unstable relationship for a long time now. How much longer are you going to put yourself thru this? I KNOW you say you love him, but do you really think this relationship is going to GO anywhere? Do you think it's going to last and become a long-term type thing, i.e. marriage, children, etc.? And would you WANT it to?
Do you think it would be HEALTHY to bring children into this relationship? Wouldn't it be unfair to them? Your partner, no fault of his, is NOT mentally stable and his particular ailment is very difficult to control. If you had children with him, it could even be frightening to them to see him in an 'episode.'
You might want to re-think things in terms of continuing this relationship. I think YOU know that it's had an adverse effect on YOU and your own mental health. Think about it, ok? God bless & please take care. Hugs, Lee 
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