(((SoupDragon)) - I'm very sorry your dad died and may he rest in peace. Are you thinking of seeing a spiritualist because this scared you and think his spirit isn't settled? Whether I believe in this kind of energy - not sure but I kind of do.

When my father died when I was 2 - my mother and older brother thought they saw my dad sitting in his favorite chair. Another point - when I was very upset about my marriage problem I went to bed and heard a crash - our family picture fell off the table and the glass broke. It wasn't those typical frames but a metal one with a sturdy steel base .

If there is spiritual energy, it may not be bad energy. I pray his spirit will rest in peace and sending strong vibes to you/your way.