sorry, not off topic ........space monkeys are control freaks and obviously, we may need them here sooner or later....... (that graphic is to die for)

rafel, you didn't tick me off. i'm untickable these days.

you are my dear friend and i did think that you were equating the pedophiles with stockbrokers. i apologize for misunderstanding you. (i am your unconditional friend)

my life has been impacted so very much by what happened to me. and i know that being molested and abused has affected so very many here.

i have had one successful relationship with a man and am working on another. but it is really, really hard. my trust issues are HUGE. obviously both men were/are unconditional partners.
a relative let me down and you don't get over it. at least, i haven't.