I wonder why she thought she should tell you all this......did she want to get a rise out of you? or what? I for one would never tell my spouse or boyfriend those things. I mean, what is the point in bringing up the past other then to make someone jealous, to get a rise out of someone or hurt them etc. Sorry but I don't get it.
Why after a year also would she want to say these things like NOW!!
I can imagine how you are feeling a little. You need to really talk with her now and see if you can save what you have. Good luck and I will be thinking of you!!
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