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Old May 27, 2012, 10:28 PM
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One thing I think I would insist upon is that she be TESTED -- unless she already has been, but I'd want to make SURE!! Anyone who has had that many partners NEEDS to be tested! And I do agree too that those numbers are pretty extreme! But whatever blows your skirt up, I guess. LOL

Personally I would never have brought all that up, but i imagine she did to clean the slate with you -- I cannot THINK of another reason she'd bring that up. If she thought that would make you jealous, I think she'd be mistaken -- most men would probably be more shocked and dismayed than jealous!!!

Since I'm sure she DID want to start "clean" with you, try not to judge her too harshly -- I think she meant well. Since she "shamed" herself for you, you should TRY to put that out of your mind and just focus on the two of you. It might be hard at first, but only think of HER when you're together.

I hope the two of you can make a go of it. Best of luck & God bless. Hugs, Lee