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May 27, 2012, 11:38 PM
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Member Since: Oct 2010
Location: Michigan
Posts: 6,543
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You sound ALOT like me. I think I'm a good friend (when I HAVE friends, that is  ). I try to be there for them whenever they need me, regardless of the time of day or night. If we have a date to meet for lunch, I always come - I don't stand anyone up. If I can't make it, I make SURE I let them know in plenty of time so they don't have to leave home. I always return phone calls as soon as I can, etc. So I'm like you. I try to be a good friend.
So I kind of expect the same in return -- I don't think that's too much to expect, ya know???  And maybe like you said, I might be weird.  But I was brought up to be courteous and I guess that's how I think people should be.
I DO get walked all over alot tho. LOL And that's MY fault for allowing it.
I don't think you're wrong or unreasonable. Maybe you and I are just too "nice." LOL Maybe we DO expect a little too much, I don't know. But at least our friends know they can count on us, right? And maybe we're too "thin skinned" cause I get hurt easily, and perhaps you do too?
I hope you two will be okay soon, and things will be forgotten. Good friends are too hard to come by. God bless & take care. Hugs, Lee
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