I definitely think your feelings on this are important to bring out to her about the way she's coming across.
Maybe she's talking like that because she wants to sound like she has a life other than being a therapist....instead, it's really coming across as her not being interested in being a therapist.
Anyone who put's that much time & effort into getting a career especially one like that which is involved in helping people....then they need to take their responsibility seriously....not just when THEY feel like it.
My engineering career sometimes required me to give them 70 hours a week......& when you have a career verses just a JOB......then the career comes first.....that has always been my opinion.....either they are a career person....or they need to get out & find something that fits better with their life.
Think it would be good therapy for her to hear & REALLY HEAR what you are saying.....because it's a very important point in therapy.
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