Hope to get some feedback. Just found out my husband has been viewing porn on his I-pad while on his job and here at home. It appears he has been doing this for at least 6 months, probably longer.

Just went to a counselor last week by myself since I was so upset, my husband is away at work.

My husband tells me that he loves me, but I have found phone numbers on our phone bills that are for porn sites and instant message numbers I dont what they are to.

How can my husband say he loves me and still do this? I have not been sexually responsive in quite awhile as I works graveyard shift and dont feel rested. He said he understood a couple months ago!