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Originally Posted by struggling2
i feel like i need to ask her what she was expecting... i know then it will turn into some long uncomfortable discussion about why i asked and my feelings and what i might be thinking i need to but dont want to tell her
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I am sure she wants you to tell her what you need, not what she is expecting. Since you say you don't want to tell her, that can make for an interesting discussion too. Perhaps then she will pose another uncomfortable question, "what can I do to make it safe for you here?"
