Thank you, Mymindistoast, the reason I'm grateful is because you worded what I was trying to say from the beginning much better then I did. It's exactly what I mean.

I'm sorry that this topic has gotten old and annoying for some. I think that it was a heated topic, it's cooled down a bit since then.

It's important to discuss these issues because it's reality and it happens. I've learned from this and I'm hoping you all have as well.