You have a right to feel your feelings. I'm a parent, and while I would be miffed at my partner over-riding my decision... I think you're angry bcoz you felt embarrassed, and you felt embarrassed bcoz your decision was over-ridden by your wife and daughter, infront of another male... Seriously, don't take it too harshly, it could've been MUCH worse. And you might want to take a look at Morghana's post for what it is. Insight into your daughter's actions, unless of cors you have zero interest in understanding her.