He tried for SSI and got denied, we are looking into other options while he fights the decision. I'm on SSI and I'm hoping it doesn't risk my income. His parents live a good 600 miles away. They are not able to come to therapy but when they do visit we do not plan to change our schedule around much. I know that sounds harsh but if we don't put our health first our ability to comply to treatment slips FAST. I did make a highlighted list of symptoms so that if I am asked my opinion it's clear. I don't plan to hide any of our emergency stuff next time they come. They constantly tell us to be honest with them and then get upset and worried when we are.