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May 29, 2012, 06:12 AM
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Member Since: Oct 2010
Location: Michigan
Posts: 6,543
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Sweetie, PLEASE don't even THINK about getting on drugs!!!! That is NOT the answer == it makes things WORSE!! Believe me, I've been there and it was a nightmare !!! You don't want to do that.  It never solves anything.
Your mother does NOT hate you. She is just very unhappy and it is NOT because of you!! She's unhappy because of circumstances, and probably because of booze and drugs. If she's unhappy in her marriage, that complicates things even more. If your Dad is cheating on her, that will make her hurt too. She's NOT mad at YOU. You aren't a loser, sweetie. You're stressed out because of what's going on at home. That would effect anyone!! I had the same kind of life when I was home too. Both my mom and dad were alcoholics, and they fought all the time. It was pretty awful. 
Talk to your counselor at school. They will NOT tell your parents unless they feel that you are UNSAFE at home. Then they might want to see that you are placed in a safer environment. But you really NEED to tell someone what's going on. Trust your counselor, ok? You shouldn't have to bear this burden alone.
I'm so sorry this is going on. You're too young to have to worry about all this -- but remember that your parents DO love you very much. It's just that they're very unhappy right now, and they're not thinking straight. But they DO love you! Keep posting about your feelings too cause it helps. And let us know what happens, ok? Big hugs, Lee 
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