I live in PA. I'm trying to start dating again. It's so hard around here, especially when my primary interest is women. I'm sick of being alone. I don't like the bar scene and there isn't much else around here but bars.

I know I'm young and there are plenty of fish in the sea, but that doesn't help my pain of being so lonely. That just makes me feel worse. I hear that...and I hear people tell me to go back to being with men. The truth is I'm terrified of men and they don't turn me on.

I'm trying to meet people on the net, but all they want to do is have cybersex...no real talking to get to know me. It's so frustrating. I guess I'm just a little too old fashioned. Anybody would be ok if they were interested in me, not what I could do for them. I could just scream!