You don't have to cooperate with this? And you don't need to be around such lowly people.

When a person is used to being around lowly people who mistreat them, this person's self worth plummets. Because of the low self worth, it is very difficult to be around people who are healthy, because healthy people really see you and this is painful. Working through this and being able to be around healthy people is what is going to get you out of this mess.

Healthy relationships aren't perfect. Working throught things with others can be messy and this is okay. Where is there perfection in nature? I hate the word perfection.

You need some real relationships.

Working through all of this, you might find that you are judgemental of others? You were judged and it taught you to judge others? I had to work through this.