I don't know about you but as soon as I begin to think something is a good thing in my life I start being scared it will end. I think it sets up a kind DON'T LEAVE ME/GO AWAY cycle. This will eventually drive the other person away. If they really care they will go off mumbling to themselves and shaking their head. Right now I just avoid relationships altogether. My therapist calls it issues of rejection and abandonment. I hope someone might have something to suggest. Good Luck!