Hi there. From what you wrote it appears that you are the only one trying to make this work. But the problem is that if he is not keen on being one woman's man, you won't be able to change it.

I understand you want him to be happy. But just staying with him so he does not have to go back to Kenya is not what you should use as a guide. Because you are hurting in the process. Not talking to him is not an option either. I think it is best you both sit down and talk this through. Can he, and does he *want* to be with you and only you? If not, are you really prepared to go through a marriage of convenience just to make him happy? This is going to be hard on *you*. So, i think you really should reconsider what *you* want out of this union.

If he is taking you for granted, then you should let him go. You can't take the responsibility for that. After all, he did admit that he might marry someone just to stay in the country... In my opinion, you should think of your happiness first and move on.