Sorry Always, I didn't mean not to acknowledge what you said, I just agree with what you're saying. Thank you for your honesty. I have chosen to give him one more chance because I love him and don't want to look back five or ten years from now and have any regrets. I also think I owe it to our children to try and have a loving and honest relationship with their father, so they can have a great example of what love between two people is suppose to be. And at least if we don't work out in the end, I can say we did everything to try and make it work.

I agree we need counselling together as well, so we don't repeat the communication mistakes we've had in the past.

Elaine, the truth is what I need to hear, thank you. Thank you both.

wounded1