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Old May 29, 2012, 03:30 PM
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Originally Posted by bowhunt72 View Post
We have always believed that love is a choice, not a feeling. We had both stopped making that choice and chose selfish motives over the good of our relationship, and a badly damaged relationship is what resulted. We are trying to mend that relationship in the belief that if we choose to act in love, the feelings will follow.
Very interesting perspective that I'll have to think on. I've never been able to "choose" love....I wish that I could...there were probably some really awesome guys that would have been great for me if I could have chosen to love them...maybe this is a concept that can work and, if so, this would be a wonderful end result for your family. Even if not, choosing to behave in a loving manner toward each other can only be a good thing for all involved.