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Originally Posted by bowhunt72
We have always believed that love is a choice, not a feeling. We had both stopped making that choice and chose selfish motives over the good of our relationship, and a badly damaged relationship is what resulted. We are trying to mend that relationship in the belief that if we choose to act in love, the feelings will follow.
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Very interesting perspective that I'll have to think on. I've never been able to "choose" love....I wish that I could...there were probably some really awesome guys that would have been great for me if I could have chosen to love them...maybe this is a concept that can work and, if so, this would be a wonderful end result for your family. Even if not, choosing to behave in a loving manner toward each other can only be a good thing for all involved.