Hi everyone!
I'm very confused about my relationship with my kids father. We have lived together for the last 4 years and have two kids together. We are not married but it feels like it. I have always supported him through everything. Even through the rough times. And I mean some rough times. But lately I have been feeling like I just don't want to do this any more. But, I haave never been on my own and with two kids it seems scary to me. But I feel like we have out grown each other. We really never had any thing in common, but our love for each other. Recently, his oldest son came to live with him and I just feel like he doesn't knowledge him like he should. I feel as though he is not compassionate enough to the situation or even loves his own son enough to make sure that his son get the tye of help that he needs. With that said, I just feel like I can't be with anyone who is not compassionate enough or even tries to be a good person. We have been arguing over it for about 3 months now and I am fed up. He is also paranoid tha I am cheating on him. I just got laid off from my job and he thinks that I am cheating! I am always in the house and I don't like to talk on the phone so it's a little hard for me to cheat, I would think. But I am at an lost. I don't know if I want to call it quits or what.