Things have been improving but baby steps on everything, like U all said took me 22 years to make it bad ,not gonna change anytime soon fast, but I will be fine as long as there is progress.So far the counseling has helped my hole family,I have even noticed my children getting along alot better.We having marriage counseling every 2 weeks now,I am happy about that as well,I believe will help alot better then 1 time a month.