the reason why it seems that you attract wierd people is because everyone is wierd... the one's that appear to be "normal", only hide it better than others.

There is no such thing as "normal".

Normal is what YOU decide it is.

If I meet someone that appears to be well-balanced and "normal", I think that is very strange... and that person makes me feel a bit tense.

As I get to know them better, and their wierdness shows up... I can relax because then I know what I am really dealing with.

I get a big kick out of reading message boards on other websites, where some folks comment and criticize another person who admits that they have a 'condition' of some type... little do they know... there's something about THEM that is most likely worse.

Hope that helps you put this is in a better perspective.