Hi, waitforitleigh. A lot of dream interpreters say we are all the people in our dreams since they are coming out of our head and imagination. So, it could be that breaking up with your boyfriend was a good idea for you, you "saved" your "male aspect" of yourself, your self/representation in the larger world. Maybe you had been letting your boyfriend(s) do too much for you, going along with what they said despite your own wishes or letting them do all the driving, planning, deciding who to see and what to do etc.? We should not give ourselves over to another person and make them responsible for our happiness in that way.