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So he is not sure if he wants to stay or move on, he loves you but all the external factors it makes him reconsider, he is scared at the thought of losing you. He is at college age and I think at this stage he might still be finding himself, especially if this is his first relationship (?) He seems hesitant and confused doesn't want to lose you and doesn't want to hurt you (pulling away, signing off suddenly, not talking for a while) He may need a lot emotional support which can take time
It is okay to fight and it is okay to have disagreements, but the thing that makes a relationship is working together. He needs time to recollect himself, it is okay to question your relationship but it doesn't mean you have to end it abruptly, unless something is very wrong. You're still growing up as well
5 months is a short time, a lot of things are happening nevertheless. It may take a whole lifetime to completely know a person, some people's emotion cycle are yearly and if you love someone and are willing to work with it - that's great, if not that is your decision take a step back to clear your mind . I still question my relationship with my BF of a little over two years, with relationships comes great frustrations
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