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Old May 30, 2012, 01:03 PM
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Originally Posted by Shadowvixen777 View Post
yeah.. my manager jumped her for treating me like that. I love my manager she really understands. She said despite all I"m going through I did really good and that she was proud of me. That made me feel much better.
Encouragement works much better then Discouragement.
One is positive and the other a negative.
A person who speaks/acts with dicouragement in a negative/angry mannor, it's their frustrations, and the only way for them to feel better about themselves is by pulling someone down.
I would'nt dwell on what they say or do. It is not positive/beneficial to you or the workplace.
I would suggest you repeat to yourself all the encouragements and positive feedback you have recieved, do your best to stay neutral when negative people intrude on you and your emotions. They are just trying to bait you to being upset/angry.
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