I actually think I'm gonna go back and see this therapist again. He said he was happy to remain as a "backup" therapist for me. I'm doing the DBT stuff but I'm not really borderline. (I seriously explored the possibility of that when it was suggested and I think that I can say after careful deliberation that that's not me and I think my therapists agree. At most if I do have it, it's extremely mild). I want to go back to this T because he was pretty skeptical of the notion and seemed very down-to-earth. I've got my emotions a bit more under control too since I last saw him.