from my experience last year, I learned to DELETE ASAP so I can't torture myself rereading them, so the sequence of events was: I texted him something about the day's session, and he responded. Two hours later, I get another text from him, addressed to someone else, asking when is a good time to call.
I text back: no, sorry, t, this is hankster.
T: sorry, hankster, this is T.
Hankster: I know, sorry I didn't sign my OP.
And that was pretty much it. today he said he was texting in the dark w/o his glasses and just texted the last number texted, which was me.
Talking about the text snafu and when I reminded him today was our rupture anniversary, he looked like I stabbed him in a soft spot with a spork. but we left on good terms as usual. I feel like i'm on a roll. we are trying to not let me backslide, so even staying still feels like moving forward!