Thank you both. I'm honestly not sure what's going on either... but for my own sanity I needed to step back and realize it's time to move on for my own health. This was pushing me into a depression as well and I can't go down that slope again. I really think he's in a depressed state... all of his friends say he is very sensitive and anything could have set on this state and I can't do anything but wait. So I've had to accept I cannot have any control in this situation, and I just need to be patient for awhile... and if nothing comes of it, then... oh well. It hurts a lot, but I've dealt with worse.