Hi steel x,

I think it is good that you have come on here to check this out - I know sometimes when we are hurting it can be hard to take the perspective of someone else that we may be taking things out on. You said the person told you that you were abusing her and I would take that at face value - if it feels like abuse to her, then it is just that.

Not sure whether you have considered seeing a therapist to talk about how you feel and / or how to manage your emotions in a different way?

Soup