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Old May 31, 2012, 09:20 AM
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I'm a mom of an almost 15 yr old and I hear about everything young people at her school are doing. First of all - some/many young men are anxious to see naked pics and even more anxious to brag about it. I tell you one story of a girl in grade 8 that happened. She was a popular girl from a good family - lived in a upper middle class area, mom a 4th grade teacher and dad owed his own insurance company. The 13 yr old daughter sent pornographic rated pics to a boy at school. He received them on his Xbox that had wireless on his 51 inch TV when another boy was over. He then sent them to all his friends and they did the same. Next day every boy at the school were huddled in groups at recess laughing. Someone tipped off the school and the police were called - this was child pornography. Several boys and the girl, along with their parents were interviewed by the police and lucky for them they were given the choice -- either be charged or go to counseling. Their computers were confiscated - who knows if all traces were found.

Even if this boy does love you, he may still send it or show it to someone else. If you ever break up, he could try to use that as a way to bully you. You run the risk of being talked about. If he wants to very nasty or does send it to someone else, it could end up anywhere to give pleasure to who knows. Personally I value myself too much to let a naked pic of me circulate to unknown places. One teenager I saw on a morning show had pics of herself in a bikini (she's busty) on facebook - someone in Poland copied her pic and put it on a porn chat site for advertising. I'm telling you this so you can learn from the lessons of others.
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