the victim's life is destroyed, never to be "fixed".

Is that really true??? Although I have many "issues" and I am no spring chicken, I had hope that someday, somehow things will be different for me...that comment just sounds so defeating... maybe it is good that I don't have all the memories and just move on like i did before knowing things happened to me.......maybe i am off topic... or not thinking clearly .. or just over reacting to a comment....