I written on this site only once. Unfortunately I cannot look up what I wrote previously. I'd like some feedback and some tips and maybe insight in this situation. I hope u dont find the post to long and it may have some grammar problems. u can just address a question with a response. Thank u in advance if u read and can give me a response.

-The problem-
*My gf has been through a lot in her life. Things i will mention and other stuff u can infer. Even from a very young age till now she suffers continously from her home to the people that have "been" there for her. She has been mistreated, used, tormented and her stress does not end till this day. I do all I can do to help her and keep her up. I try to put her before myself, and attempt to cheer her up and keep her happy. I've been through a depressing stage, and i look outside and inside the box. I listen to what people have to say, and take the advice into a thoughtful consideration, so i know i can communicate well and try to help without having a clouded judgement of what i say, but of course i am not perfect.

-Me and my gf have been going out for 6 months. We're both age 22, and old classmates from HS. We are different nationalities, she being Polish and i being Mexican. Unfortunately its a hidden relation between us for her parents.
She also has a brother that she cannot trust to keep this a secret. She also has a child thats 3 years old from a relationship gone bad i'll note in a bit.

-Her Parents are very selfish and cruel. I say this with confidence.
-Her mother was also an abused child, father was a drunk and mistreated her and her sister. Now she has become an aggressor towards her own daughter. She calls her ungrateful, pig, lazy, useless and these are just simple occasional things that are said. She blames her "miserable" life on my gf. Has told her she wishes she was either dead or never born. My gf, cannot run away from this, and is her tormentor all morning. And her mom expects her to live with it like its nothing, like nothings being said. The lastest thing said was over how my over a morning conversation, my GFs dad and mom were bickering over the young child. My gf added as a joke, for some humour that her mother had given coffee to the child when she was much younger. Her mom instantly scolded her and verbally abused her, to the point that she called my gf judas and started crying. Despite me telling my gf to call me when she had the urge to hurt herself, she went through with cutting herself.

-Her father is a truckdriver and works until friday or saturday. He treats his daughter like a a scertary with zero gratitude. No matter what, he sends her out to do his own paperwork because he refuses to learn english. He has her handle everything from lawyers to his taxes that he didnt pay for a year. its ALL HER OBLIGATION. His own medicine for diabetes needs to be refilled every two weeks or so, and he wont mention it to her until its the last day, and tell her off because he didnt have any. Its very self centered and unjust. The miscommunication between Him and the mother causes her to recieve the yelling also. Someone forgot to tell My GF something, because X reason, its officially her fault regardless of her being aware or not. Even if she was on top of the whole house, she will never receive a thank u and still is "****ing" something up.

-She has been in bad relationships with plenty of abusive bfs. At 18 she left her to move out with someone she thought she could trust. He wouldnt let her leave, she had to sneak out and stay elsewhere, and yet she would come back because she had no choice. Unfortuantly this particuliar individual gave her no choice but to have sex with him. He left her pregnant with a child and could care less for the child. Put her through hell to take the child only because of his parents wanting custody and it turns out, he got another girl pregnant now with a year old child. U can see the type of trash we have as neighbours. She won the custody, least i think, but she refuses to tell me with her final hearing.

-She has been through a lot... she is happy somedays, utterly destroyed other days. I love this girl, and I understand the responsiblites that come with out relationships. They are not burdens to me. I do feel stressed and weak days i cant help and days she lashes around, but we have good times, and i wanna continue having those days with her. I know its possible. I just need some help, and a direction to take. Even if our relationship doesnt work, i want to help her as a friend still. She doesn't deserve this pain.