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Jun 01, 2012, 04:00 AM
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Member Since: Oct 2010
Location: Michigan
Posts: 6,543
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Hi hon ~ "Dailyhealing" is right. First, you have to learn to love YOURSELF before you can learn to love someone else, or have them love YOU.
You say you suffer from depression -- I think you need to talk to someone about that. Is there some way you can talk to a counselor about this? Every school has a counselor. Can you talk to yours at school? They won't tell anyone about it, unless they fear for your safety. It's confidental, ok? They won't call your parents -- so go ahead and talk to them.  You really need someone to talk to that is trained in this kind of thing.
And secondly don't compare yourself to your to your step-sister. It doesn't MATTER what she does cause she's a whole different person than you are. And believe me, she's TOO YOUNG to be having sex!!  She's probably going to end up pregnant! Would YOU want that to happen to you? That would be horrible! You DON'T want a baby at this age! You would NOT be able to support it, and it's not fair to have your parents support it.
You will find a boyfriend when the time is right. But right now, you need to focus on yourself and your studies. You need to learn to love yourself first. Be sure and talk to the counselor too, ok? God bless and please take care. We ALL care about you. Hugs, Lee 
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