Wow, I forgot I posted this. I've been wrapped up in other things lately (charity work, go to bubutu.org to donate ) thanks for the replies. Unfortunately its left me even more confused than before! Haha.
Have people ever been disappointed either way that you haven't had everything done? For instance I've always found the idea of pre op m to f transexuals quite appealing (best of both lol), but I should imagine that's not the goal of most or all transgendered folk?